Responding to Grief

Resources

For those who are grieving, there are a variety of resources available on campus.

For grief counseling, Counseling and Psychiatric Services (CAPS) is available to students and graduate students and Faculty Staff Assistance Program (FSAP) is available to baby直播app and staff.

If the loss involves navigating law enforcement and or the legal system contact the Office of Victim Assistance (OVA) for advocacy support.

Things you can say

  • I am sorry for your loss. 
  • Is there any specific way I can help you right now? 
  • I cannot even imagine how much you are hurting. 
  • Can I call you and check in with you every so often? (Do not expect them to remember to call you.) 
  • Would you like to talk about it? I want to hear what you have to say. 
  • It is OK with me if you cry. 
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Things to know

  • Just reaching out a hand, being there in silence, and letting them have their feelings can be helpful.
  • Sometimes just sitting with someone without having to say anything is the greatest gift you can give a grieving person.
  • Do not stop trying to make contact over the months, unless they CLEARLY ask you to, they will appreciate your care even if they cannot take you up on it yet.
  • Sometimes it takes weeks or months before a grieving person is able to reach out for help.
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